Uitdrukking in het Nederlands

Wat betekent “kom maar” in het Nederlands?

A soft Dutch invitation — "go on, come" — built from kom + the maar particle.

Wat het betekent

Kom maar is the most-used member of Dutch's imperative-plus-maar family. The verb kom on its own is a direct order; adding maar downgrades it into something closer to "come, no pressure." Dutch handles this softening with a particle, where English handles the same softening with intonation. An English parent saying "come" with a falling, casual intonation gets the same effect that kom maar delivers explicitly.

The phrase is so embedded in Dutch service-and-hospitality life that cashiers, hosts, and receptionists use it dozens of times a day. It's also the first thing a Dutch parent says to a hesitant toddler, the first thing a Dutch dog-owner says to a shy dog, and the standard verbal nudge anywhere a soft "go on" is needed.

Waar je het hoort

Inviting someone forward at a counter or doorway

Cashier to next customer: "Kom maar."

Reassuring a hesitant child or animal

"Kom maar, niet bang zijn."

Mid-conversation as a verbal "go ahead."

When you've yielded the floor: "Nee, kom maar, vertel verder."

Phone calls and video calls

ending or transitioning: "Oké, kom maar, doei."